School Walk

When should they walk to school on their own?

In Parenting by Sean2 Comments

So, we’ve been asking ourselves the question ‘When should they walk to school on their own?’ recently.

It all started…

So, it all started just before the beginning of this new term. Not so little Miss was going to be 9 in November (November 2017) and she wanted to start walking to school on her own. Now, there are some children in her class that, it seems, do walk to school on their own – but we felt a little uncomfortable at that time.

See, although she is 9, from a few posts you may have read, we’re not sure if she just traits of ASD, if she has Sensory Processing Disorder or anything else. It may be nothing. But we didn’t feel it was the right time.

Over the past months

That said, over the past 3-4 months, what we have been doing is walking the 1/4 mile to school with her – then letting her make her own way into the school from there. We stop at the school gates and we can see her go in.

This way, we know she gets there safely and she has a little independence.

The question is still there

The question is ‘When should they walk to school on their own?’.

With today’s news being accessible at the click of a button, we read all the bad headlines out there. It really is a worrying time for a parent. We are all very protective of our family, our kids, and you really don’t want to do anything of risk to them. Could there be a risk at 9? Do we wait till she is 10 or more? Questions that all need answering.

For us…

I think, for us, we are aiming for the start of the next school year. Through this year we are going to try and continue getting both our daughter and us, ready for this big step. It is a big step, we have to let go and that is really difficult. After years of doing this school run, we have to stop.

To be honest, I really enjoy the walk in a morning. I enjoy walking down, getting that fresh air and exercise. I think I won’t be sure what to do? It’s still quite a few months off yet though, so I am going to make the most of it.

I know, she will enjoy that little bit of independence when it comes, we won’t enjoy letting go – I know that much – and we will always worry. That’s what being a parent is all about though… Worrying.

Have you got any thoughts or suggestions

Have you already been through this? Got any suggestions for us and everyone else reading this? I’d love to hear your thoughts, why not leave a comment below.

My Random Musings

I recently came across the following quote

“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.”
― Maya Angelou

This is my new goal in life. Not to conform to be normal, but to be amazing and I hope to inspire you to be amazing too.

Comments

  1. I think this is a tricky one, and there are probably a lot of different factors at play. We’re nowhere near this point yet, my eldest is only in Reception so we’ve got a good few years before we start needing to think about it. We live pretty close to school (about 10 minutes walk) but there is quite a busy main road to cross so I think we’ll probably start by crossing the road with him then letting him walk from there. We’ll also have to consider that we have another son two years younger so we’ll need to decide if we trust them to walk to school together. I hope you manage to find a solution that works for you. #BloggerClubUK

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      Yes, we’re thinking that end of the year – and hopefully, she and friends walk together too. Always tricky as you say. The one good factor for us is there is only one road to cross. It’s not busy, but it’s a tricky corner. One to factor in too

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